Who wishes to fight must first count the cost.
A moment to consider
Some arguments keep asking for more: another reply, another hour, another night's sleep. Before stepping into one, it helps to name what is at stake and what a useful outcome would look like. A pause can make room for a firm answer, a different conversation, or the decision to spend your attention elsewhere.
A question for today
Which disagreement is taking more of your attention than it deserves, and what would a useful next step look like?
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